All Programs are virtual


COFFEE WITH A LILAC TREE COUNSELOR

Free Program! Join one of our Lilac Tree Counselors for a coffee (or tea!) and chat in a one-time small group format (max. 6 clients) via Zoom offering general conversation, connection, and support for coping through separation, divorce. All welcome, must pre-register.

NEXT SESSION:

Thursday, May 9 - 10:30am Cost: Free Program! Topic: Open to all


Pop-Up Support series

Join one of our Lilac Tree Social Workers for a one-time interactive support group discussion focused around a topic or title or stage of the process. These are 1 meeting only, support-based interactive group meetings, and are limited to 8 or 9 attendees. Feel free to contact us and let us know what topic you would like us to cover or offer more often?

UPCOMING SESSIONS:

Wednesday APRIL 17 - 12pm - 1:30pm $45 Topic: Should I Stay or Should I Leave? ***PROGRAM is FULL***


support groups

Facing separation, trekking through a divorce or embarking on a new life after divorce can be a challenging, isolating, and sometimes vulnerable period in your life. Lilac Tree offers shelter and respite. We offer a compassionate, safe, and supportive environment.

We offer groups for every stage of the process: 

  • Contemplating Separation or Divorce

  • In the Process

  • Life After Divorce

Our Lilac Tree Support Groups are peer-based support groups, facilitated by one of our Social Workers, all with years of experience in relationship breakdown, separation and divorce (and more).

Finding friendship and support from other people at the same stage of separation or divorce is empowering. Our groups serve to connect people who are facing similar challenges and provide a supportive, positive environment from which to learn and grow. This is your moment to empower yourself, learning to seek and receive peer-based support and give support to others when and as needed.

All Support Groups are virtual, taking place via Zoom, in a safe, non-judgmental environment where participants share their experiences, learn from and support each other.

We offer Support Groups regardless of gender identity, however, each group is single gender.

Our groups fill fast! Please contact us to be on a waitlist - we are always planning extra groups. Call us today 847.328.0313. Below are groups currently filling for the Spring 2024,

Costs are detailed below, but in general are $45 per session.

For Women - Contemplating

Contemplating Support Groups

NEW 8-week Contemplating Group THURSDAYS 4pm - 5:30pm ***4 spaces open**

THURSDAY Lunchtime 12 - 1pm ***NEW Just Opened! ***only 2 spaces open***

Call us 847-328-0313 for current availability or to join a waitlist.


For Women - In The Process

Currently Filling:

  • Monday Lunchtime - Starts APRIL - General Group: In the Process 12noon - 1:30pm (8 weeks) ***ONLY 1 space!

  • Friday Mornings - Starts APRIL 26 - TOPIC: Later in Life - 10am - 11:30am (8 weeks) ***ONLY 1 space open!

    ****We are always building new groups, call us to join waitlists for new groups coming May, June & July 2024****

For Women - Divorced. Life After Divorce Series

  • Mondays - Starts APRIL / MAY - TOPIC: Life After Divorce - 4pm - 5:30pm (6 weeks) ***5 spaces open



For Men - In The Process or Divorced

We are close! to starting a Men’s Support Group! Please contact us!


YOU deserve support and self care - contact us today 847.328.0313.


Group Requirements

What is important to us, is that you access the support you need. Fee Assistance is always available for each Support Group.

To join a group, please call Lauren, our Client Coordinator, or Julie, one of our Divorce Counselors, at 847.328.0313 or discuss during a Personalized Information Session appointment with one of our counselors.


SIZE & START DATES

Virtual Support Groups are limited in size and vary depending upon the length or topic of the group. Start dates are expected and only finalized when the group is full. All groups are run via Zoom and are managed by a Lilac Tree staff member or volunteer supporting the counselor when possible. All Zoom rooms are waiting room enabled, and on time attendance is required, as rooms are locked as the meeting begins.


COSTS

Costs vary depending on length, size, and topic of the group. We are always adapting to client needs and ideas and we vary groups and thus costs. The shorter the length, the more staff time needed to organize and manage.

Typically, our costs are as follows:

  • 4-week groups are $45/ hr.

    • 1 hour groups are a total of $180

  • 6-week and 8-week groups are $30 / hr.

    • 1.5 hour groups are $45 a meeting.

    • 2 hour groups are a $60 a meeting

Commitment Payments are $180 to secure a spot in a group

Fees are payable in installments, one to secure your spot in the group, a Commitment Payment, and the second or third is due before the start of the group once a start date is confirmed.

Typically this means there’s a few weeks in between each payment. Payment plans or fee assistance can been arranged - just ask! Our Ila Chaiken Scholarship Fund offers fee assistance always available.

Please note that we are unable to issue refunds once a group start date is confirmed, unless the space is able to be filled before the group begins.

If you are interested in any support program or want more information please

Call 847.328.0313 or email info@thelilactree.org

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Personalized Sessions

Attend a confidential one-on-one hour-long session with one of our trained divorce counselors.

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Divorce University™

In-person and online courses about legal, financial and emotional topics related to separation and divorce.